Caring Domination

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Caring Domination
Being a Caring
Domme:
CARING DOMINATION
This website is about love,
caring, strong
relationships, and happy
endings. It is about strong
knights with allegiance to
a caring Lady. It's about
the tricky business of
understanding and dealing
with a submissive man.
Understanding
Submissiveness:
Starting Out:
Your mate perhaps wants
to be enslaved, you want
him to be enthralled.
That's a happy ending for
both of you.
of TJ's
Story is one man's report
after 5 weeks of caring
domination. He talks about
the new and wonderful sex
life he has with his wife,
his love for her, his new
sense of freedom and
wholeness, his joy in life,
and more attention to his
appearance. Part 3 of his
  Caring Domination
story mentioned their
improved communication.
All you have
to do is,
with no
training or
preparation,
step into a
role our
culture has
taught you is wrong. You
have to deal with his male
fantasy. Even though he is
the one who wants you to
do this, you need to lead
him to a place neither of
your know exists.
When you do that, you will
deserve to be called a
caring Goddess.
You can do it, and you can
enjoy it. This website is
about our vision of
domination, which we call
Caring Domination
. It is
designed to work for you
and work for him.
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You have to admire a species
where the men care for the
women, the women care for the
children, and the most powerful
human being on the planet is a
newborn baby.
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 Overview: Becoming a Dominant
Becoming a Dominant
Your husband wants you to dominate him. What will be
different?
Probably sex. Some submissive men are interested
only
in
sexual scenes and have no interest in submissiveness outside
the bedroom. That's fine, but not what this website preaches,
so if your husband sent you to this website, he probably
wants to be dominated outside the bedroom too. (But sex is
still very important to him.)
And now you are in charge. The boss. The queen. But
probably you were already in charge of home, children, or
social relations. Now
he
is a part of your dominion. But you
probably already tried to control him. Maybe he was a
resource to care for home and family. He might have already
followed your directions for social relationships. So this could
be a big change in power, but it probably isn't.
The change is this. There is a
primitive part of his personality
that wants to be dominated. You
are going to plug into that
primitive part of his personality.
You are going to dance the
ancient dance of domination.
You are going to be the goddess
he is looking for. You are going
to use his sexual desire to have
control over him. When you tap into that primitive part of his
personality, serving you is going to become erotic to him. He
will be enslaved by his love for you, and that too will be
erotic for him.
You already care for your husband, or you wouldn't be here.
But you might think he can manage his own happiness by
himself, without your attention. It will probably help your
dominion if you sometimes exert your dominance to help
care for him.
As queen, you need to MAKE YOUR OWN DECISIONS AND DO
 Overview: Becoming a Dominant
WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT. That's part of being dominant.
You can still ask him what he wants. You can still accept wise
counsel. You can still grant him boons. That's part of being
competent and caring. But you are the queen amd you make
the final decision.
So you are starting a process of slow growth. He is too. You
and he are going to change how you relate, and you are
going to change for the better. You are going to hit bumps in
the road. You will have to communicate. It will not be easy.
But it should be fun.
If you are going to control
him, you need to understand
him. Their is no replacement
for communication. But some
of our webpages explain
about submissiveness. Why is
he submissive? What can you
change and what can't you
change?
You are need to be dominant, caring, and competent. There is
no replacement for exploring and seeing what you like and
what works for you. But our webpages will explain how to be
dominant and caring..
It also helps to know where you are going. We describe how
to build a strong knight, clean submission, and a trusting
submission. Most submissives sooner or later find the knight
image appealing. But psychological destruction is very erotic.
A major tension of caring domination is being erotic and yet
trying to avoid things that make him smaller.
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